A wedding is a lot of things: a love-fest, a commitment ceremony, a deeply spiritual experience, a big party, a gathering of friends and family from around the world, a day at the beach, a bonfire in the rain, karaoke all night long, really it can be all of that at once, or whatever you want it to be.
Of course, no matter what, it will be a very memorable day in your life and the lives of everyone close to you. I remember every wedding or commitment ceremony I’ve been to, no matter how well I knew the couple. I think it is a very beautiful thing…love, commitment, the wedding dress, all of it.
Yet, beyond the emotionality of the day and all that goes on with the ceremony and the party and the love between the couple, there is a HUGE opportunity here to make a difference in the world.
Here is a short list of things you can do to make a difference with your wedding even on a budget. You don’t need to give all your gifts away to charity….
1) Support Local Businesses – wherever possible choose local. By supporting the businesses around you, you are supporting your community, your neighbors, and making a good choice for the environment.
2) Support Local Artists – chances are, where you live, there are artists dying to make the items on your registry in an environmentally sound, custom, or unique way. Consider setting up part of your registry with a local artist or two. Also, feel free to think a little beyond your normal budget…people want to get you gifts, and people can go in on things together for you. Choose quality – it is less likely to end up in the dump in a year.
3) Choose Environmental Options – especially in the summer, when a lot of weddings happen, there is a big opportunity to choose fresh, local, organic produce for your event. Also, with your registry think about where the products are made and how, if you can, choose items that are made locally with environmentally responsible materials. Or, think outside the box entirely, and choose unconventional gifts, like produce from a local farm through a CSA (Community Supported Agriculture) Membership, or a short trip with your hubby on a local wine tour.
4) Give and Receive or Receive and Give – Sometimes cash is the greatest gift! This is good for the environment…low impact…big return for you. If you have a lot of the stuff, then feel free to ask for cash instead. You could put it toward a trip, or a new home, or anything you want. Also, even if you are on a budget, like most people these days, you may consider asking guests to donate a small amount to a charity as part of your registry, or to plant a tree in your honor through a local non-profit.
5) Reduce, Reuse, Recycle – Whenever you can, compost, recycle, reuse. Get creative! You can even recycle you wedding dress at our friends Blue Sky Bridal: www.bluskybridal.com. Look for more ideas for “greening your wedding” tomorrow.
At Sound Trading Co: Local Gift Registry for Good we are making it easy for Seattle area couples to make a difference on their wedding day through great gift registry. Please comment on this blog, or contact us directly. We’d love to hear your ideas!
You can also visit us at: www.soundtradingco.com.
We look forward to hearing from you! Lilah